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Thursday, January 1, 2026
2025 Reading Wrap Up - Ratings
★★★★★
2025 Reading Wrap Up
My 2025 Reading Wrap Up. This year I read 94 books and exceeded my goal of 85 books.
“The House of My Mother” by Shari Franke was the overall winner and the non-fiction winner with “Challenger: A True Story of Heroism and Disaster on the Edge of Space” by Adam Higginbotham coming in second. On the fiction side I had “Atmosphere” by Taylor Jenkins Reid as the winner with “All the Broken Places (The Boy in the Striped Pyjamas, #2)” by John Boyne coming in second.
Sunday, December 14, 2025
Goodreads Review - "Challenger: A True Story of Heroism & Disaster on the Edge of Space"
Challenger: A True Story of Heroism and Disaster on the Edge of Space by Adam HigginbothamMy rating: 5 of 5 stars
The history behind NASA and space exploration is one of my favorite subjects to read about or watch a documentary of. I’ve seen the “Challenger: The Final Flight” documentary on Netflix at least four times. This book was released after that documentary and includes most of the info from it; however, it also provides even more details. Adam Higginbotham has delivered us with an extensively researched and well written story of what really happened.
This disaster should have never happened. It wasn’t an accident and I refuse to ever call it that. This was prideful negligence on the part of NASA leaders who strong-armed others to agree with them to continue the launch despite the recommendations not to. You would think that NASA would have learned their lesson after the Apollo 1 fatal fire. They didn’t. They allowed their hubris to take front and center stage.
We owe a lot to Al McDonald and his bravery for standing up & speaking the truth at the Rogers Commission of what really happened the night before in a meeting between NASA and Thiokol. It’s even more disturbing that NASA officials didn’t inform the astronauts of the risk of launching that morning. General Donald Kutyna said to Larry Mallory during the hearings, “Larry, if this were an airplane, an airliner, and I just had a two-hour argument with Boeing on whether the wing was going to fall off or not, I think I would tell the pilot.”
Dr. Judy Resnik’s last words were hauntingly beautiful. Before she entered the front cabin, she looked at Christa McAuliffe and said, “The next time I see you, we’ll be in space.”
The last part of President Reagan’s address to the nation (which includes a couple lines from the poem “High Flight”): “The crew of the space shuttle Challenger honored us by the manner in which they lived their lives. We will never forget them, nor the last time we saw them, this morning, as they prepared for their journey and waved goodbye and slipped the surly bonds of earth to touch the face of God.”
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Goodreads Review - "Poems & Prayers"
Poems & Prayers by Matthew McConaugheyMy rating: 5 of 5 stars
I really enjoyed reading this book of poems & prayers and I highly recommend it to anyone who loves poetry. I saved a few poems and quotes and this one was my favorite:
"The American dream is a promise for the opportunity to at least fail, and possibly succeed. Seems like the path to this dream is more undefined now than it's ever been. To those among us who don't believe in it and say, "It's not real," I say to you: "At least America's still trying." That's simply not true in so many other countries. So, whether you think it's a dream or an illusion, if nothing else, it's the best nightmare available.
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Saturday, November 15, 2025
Goodreads Review - "In Defense of Dabbling"
In Defense of Dabbling: The Brilliance of Being a Total Amateur by Karen WalrondMy rating: 5 of 5 stars
I’ve said it before and I say it again, there are less than 5 authors that I will preorder a book from and Karen is one of them. I haven’t been dissappointed yet. This book was the one that I was most excited for because in the last couple of years, I’ve been pretty bored and wanting to try new hobbies. I love how she writes her books which includes not just her talking about her experience or knowledge on any subject matter, she includes conversations she has with other people on the same subject. She talks about the 7 attributes of intentional amateurism and dives even further with each one: curiosity, mindfulness, self-compassion, play, stretch zone, connection, and wonder & awe. I love that she talks about dabbling in past hobbies as well as discovering new ones. I’ve been cross stitching for almost 3 decades now and I don’t plan to stop but I’m eager to branch out into other crafts involving needle & thread.
“Given that leisure is our birthright and that the practice of leisure activities in a ritualistic way can be a spiritual practice, intentional amateurism has the potential to be a powerful form of self-care. And the beauty of this is that any activity we choose as a potential avocation—whether it involves returning to a past passion or dabbling in something new—could be a perfect candidate for this restful, restorative practice. Dusting off those roller skates, or grabbing the violin from the attic, or reaching for those oil paints after a long hiatus, especially when your moves don’t come as easily as they used to: These things are hard.”
I used a lot of sticky tabs for this book but here’s a couple of quotes from the book I loved:
“As for me, I’ll never have the virtuosity of say, Billy Joel. But I’ve learned that it takes grit to return to something I used to do well. It requires showing myself compassion by releasing the idea of perfection I’d held in my youth and embracing the evolution of my current capabilities.”
“When we talk about ‘perfectionism’ or constantly attempting to be right, we’re concerned about what other people think of our performance….. Your goal isn’t about the end result so much as it is an inquiry into your activity and your reaction to it. It’s about disconnecting yourself from the quality of your results as defined by other people. And to an extent, it’s also about disconnecting yourself from your own expectations of yourself.” – Jeff Harry
I’ve decided to compile a list of new, current, and old hobbies that I want to dabble in a little more.
New Hobbies: Book Binding | Thread Painting | Macre-Weaving (Macrame Weaving) | Diorama/Book Nook building | Ukulele | Kalimba | Oboe | Mandala Rock Paintings | Gypsum Art
Current Hobbies: Cross stitching | Reading | Embroidery | LEGO | Macrame | Running/Walking | Music | Diamond Painting | Epoxy/Resin Art | Beading | Candle Making
Old Hobbies: Bowling | Archery | Flute | Piccolo | Alto Saxophone | Yoga | Tennis | Pickleball | Roller Skating | Kite Flying | Poetry/Writing | Sewing | Traveling | Baking
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Wednesday, October 22, 2025
Goodreads Review - "The Dogs of Venice"
The Dogs of Venice by Steven RowleyMy rating: 4 of 5 stars
When I marked this book as finished, I noticed my “Read” Goodreads bookshelf now said 555. That’s how many books I’ve read in my life. I looked up the meaning behind 555 and it symbolizes major life changes, transformation, and personal growth which is very fitting for this book.
Here’s my favorite quote from the book:
“Perhaps how to be alone wasn’t even the lesson Paul was seeking; how to be present was. There was music and wonder in life to be had, and yes, sometimes it was nice to experience it with another, but it didn’t come from being with someone else. The world could be appreciated alone, even when it felt scary.”
The reference to Diane Keaton made me a little sad.
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Tuesday, September 30, 2025
Goodreads Review - "Oz, the Complete Collection, Volume 4"
Oz, The Complete Collection, Volume 4: Rinkitink in Oz / The Lost Princess of Oz / The Tin Woodman of Oz by L. Frank BaumMy rating: 4 of 5 stars
This volume was one of my favorites so far.
Rinkitink in Oz (4 stars)
I really liked this book in the series after that last few that I have read that I rated 3 stars. There's always an adventure and something to overcome. I'm a bit confused at why the title was about Rinkitink when he wasn't even the main character but the story was still good. The ending for King Gos and Queen Cor was not something I expected. And last, the story line for Bilbil, the goat, was a great twist at the end.
I really did love this quote about Zella who is Nikobob's daughter: "She was a brave little girl and poor people are often obliged to take chances that rich ones are spared."
Side note: It's extremely important to remember that this book was published in 1916 which means that some words are used in a different context like the word 'molest' which was used quite few times in the book. The older definition and the use for the word was: "to bother, interfere with, or annoy." It has since been updated in the dictionary to reflect the current definition.
The Lost Princess of Oz (4 stars)
This story was actually really good. There's always an adventure and something to overcome. Princess Ozma goes missing (along with other magical items) and the characters have to go on a journey to rescue her. I love that a lot of the main characters from the beginning were more present in this story. The Mysterious City was one of my favorites and how they (well it was Scraps) figured out how to get in was quite fun to read.
There was a section in the book where they were comparing beauty and who was the most beautiful and the Lion responded with the following and I loved this: "Were we all like the Sawhorse, we would all be Sawhorses, which would be too many of the kind; were we all like Hank, we would be a herd of mules; if like Toto, we would be a pack of dogs; should we all become the shape of the Woozy, he would no longer be remarkable for his unusual appearance. Finally, were you all like me, I would consider you so common that I would not care to associate with you. To be individual, my friends, to be different from others, is the only way to become distinguished from the common herd. Let us be glad, therefore, that we differ from one another in form and in disposition. Variety is the spice of life and we are various enough to enjoy one another's society; so let us be content."
Another favorite part was when Toto lost his growl and said "But how about my lost growl?" and the Lion responded with, "The growl is of importance only to you. So it is your business to worry over the loss, not ours. If you love us, do not afflict your burdens on us; be unhappy all by yourself."
And lastly this quote from Ugu the Shoemaker said: "For many days of quiet thought have shown me that only those things one acquires honestly are able to render one content."
The Tin Woodman of Oz (4 stars)
This one was another favorite in this series. You would think that as many books as there are in this series, the creativity would run dry but it hasn't yet. This story follows the Tin Woodman's story about a munchkin he was suppose to marry before he got stuck in the woods until Dorothy came to his rescue in the first book. After encouragement from Woot the Wanderer, they go on a journey to find his first love and marry her.
I was not expecting how much would happen and how they linked a lot of it to the books before like the nine tiny piglets and where they came from originally before they now live with the Wizard of Oz. We get to find out what became of his body parts after the Wicked Witch had cursed his axe. And last, the ending to the story was not predictable as I thought it would be and I loved it. I won't say anymore because I don't want to spoil anything.
There were a few quotes that I loved in the book so I'll share them here: "When one travels, it is foolish to miss any interesting sight." - the Scarecrow
"I'm glad they didn't invite us in. I hope I'm not too particular about my associates, but I draw the line at pigs." - Captain Fyter
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Thursday, September 11, 2025
A Note on Empathy by Jeff Guenther, LPC
Monday, July 28, 2025
Goodreads Review - "The Devil at His Elbow"
The Devil at His Elbow: Alex Murdaugh and the Fall of a Southern Dynasty by Valerie BauerleinMy rating: 5 of 5 stars
I highly recommend this book even if you've already seen documentaries about the Murdaugh family. This is the best book out there on this story. There's so much information on this family and the tragedies surrounding them. The writing was so good and it flowed very well.
There were a few quotes that stuck out to me:
"Alex had his secrets. So did his forefathers. Alex’s father, grandfather, and great-grandfather could make secrets disappear, and they had taught Alex to embrace the family ethos: To live above the law, you must become the law."
"For more than a century, the Murdaughs had practiced the art of putting a polished sheen over the mess of reality.
"Waters pressed Alex on the magnitude of his success and influence. There was an absurdity to Alex's disputing something so plainly true, as if he were so accustomed to swimming in the water of privilege, he forgot it was water at all."
"A dominant impression, shared by many, was that Moselle felt like a place where the barrier between the living and the dead was very thin."
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Saturday, January 11, 2025
Tuesday, December 31, 2024
2024 Reading Wrap Up - Ratings
★★★★★
2024 Reading Wrap Up
Here’s my 2024 Reading Wrap Up. This year I managed to read 117 books and exceeded my goal of 60 books. This is my first year to ever read over a hundred books.
“The House of Hidden Meanings” by RuPaul was the overall winner and the non-fiction winner with “Greenlights” by Matthew McConaughey coming in second. On the fiction side I had “The Guncle Abroad” by Steven Rowley as the winner with “A Nearly Normal Family” by M.T. Edvardsson coming in second.
Goodreads Review - "From Here to the Great Unknown"
From Here to the Great Unknown by Lisa Marie PresleyMy rating: 5 of 5 stars
This book was so good and beautifully written. This was definitely a 5-star read for me. I’ve included my three favorite parts of the book. The first two are Lisa-Marie’s words and the last is Riley’s from a letter to her mom that was read at her funeral.
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AT SOME POINT I HAD A BRIGHT IDEA. THE FANS OUTSIDE ALWAYS WANTED ME TO TAKE THEIR CAMERA AND TAKE A PICTURE OF MY DAD. "GIVE ME TWENTY BUCKS, AND I'LL TAKE A PICTURE OF HIM," I'D SAY TO THE UBER FANS BY THE FENCE.
SURE ENOUGH, THEY WOULD GIVE ME TWENTY DOLLARS, THEN I WOULD GO INTO THE HOUSE AND TAKE A PICTURE OF THE FLOOR. I'D GIVE THE CAMERA BACK AND SAY, "HERE'S A PICTURE OF THE DOOR AND THE FLOOR." I STARTED DOING THAT REGULARLY.
- Lisa-Marie Presley
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I DON'T THINK MY SPARK WILL EVER COME BACK, TO BE PERFECTLY HONEST.
GRIEF SETTLES. IT'S NOT SOMETHING YOU OVERCOME. IT'S SOMETHING THAT YOU LIVE WITH. YOU ADAPT TO IT. NOTHING ABOUT YOU IS WHO YOU WERE. NOTHING ABOUT HOW OR WHAT I USED TO THINK IS IMPORTANT. THE TRUTH IS THAT I DON'T REMEMBER WHO I WAS.
- Lisa-Marie Presley
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THANK YOU FOR GIVING ME STRENGTH, MY HEART, MY EMPATHY, MY COURAGE, MY SENSE OF HUMOR, MY MANNERS, MY TEMPER, MY WILDNESS, MY TENACITY. I AM A PRODUCT OF YOUR HEART. MY SISTERS ARE A PRODUCT OF YOUR HEART. MY BROTHER IS A PRODUCT OF YOUR HEART. WE ARE YOU, YOU ARE US, MY ETERNAL LOVE. I HOPE YOU FINALLY KNOW HOW LOVED YOU WERE HERE. THANK YOU FOR TRYING SO HARD FOR US. IF I DIDN'T TELL YOU EVERY DAY, THANK YOU.
- Riley Keough (from a letter to her mom that was read at her funeral)
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Sunday, December 15, 2024
Goodreads Review - "Oz, Complete Collection, Volume 3"
Oz, the Complete Collection, Volume 3: The Patchwork Girl of Oz / Tik-Tok of Oz / The Scarecrow of Oz by L. Frank BaumMy rating: 3 of 5 stars
The Patchwork Girl of Oz (3 stars)
Another new adventure in the land of Oz. It was good but not too exciting. More characters were introduced. How the patchwork girl was created was very creative. On to the next adventure.
Tik-Tok of Oz (3 stars)
Each adventure is exciting to read with new and creative characters and places in the Land of Oz but this one was a bit boring for me. I'm still not sure why this was labeled after "Tik-Tok" because we barely got to see Tik-Tok and when we did, he didn't really do much but that's just my opinion. This review won't stop me from finishing the series because there are a lot of creative stories, characters, and places that I'm excited to see more of.
The Scarecrow of Oz (3 stars)
I love the fact that two new characters appeared from another one of L. Frank Baum's book outside of the Oz collection. The book is titled after the Scarecrow but he doesn't appear until the last half of the book. This books was okay but not one of my favorites. It's important to note that one of the chapter's title has the "m" word when referring to little people so it may be triggering for some.
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