Thursday, January 1, 2026

2025 Reading Wrap Up - Ratings


★★★★★

A Map of Days (Miss Peregrine's Peculiar Children, #4) - Ransom Riggs
All the Broken Places (The Boy in the Striped Pajamas, #2) - John Boyne
And How Does That Make You Feel? - Joshua Fletcher
Apollo 8: The Thrilling Story of the First Mission to the Moon - Jeffrey Kruger
Atmosphere - Taylor Reid Jenkins
Challenger: A True Story of Heroism and Disaster on the Edge of Space - Adam Higginbotham
Emotional Intelligence: Good Habits - Harvard Business Review
Harriet Tubman: Live in Concert - Bob the Drag Queen
Harry Styles is Life - Kathleen Perricone
In Defense of Dabbling: The Brilliance of Being a Total Amateur - Karen Walrond
Lady Gaga is Life - Kathleen Perricone 
Malibu Rising - Taylor Jenkins Reid
Poems & Prayers - Matthew McConaughey
Radiant Rebellion: Reclaim Aging, Practice Joy, and Raise a Little Hell - Karen Walrond 
Rihanna is Life - Kathleen Perricone
Room - Emma Donoghue
Somewhere Beyond the Sea (Cerulean Chronicles, #2) - T.J. Klune
Summer Sisters - Judy Blume 
Sunrise on the Reaping (The Hunger Games, #0.5) - Suzanne Collins
The Astronaut Wives Club - Lily Koppel
The Beauty of Different: Observations of a Confident Misfit - Karen Walrond 
The Bell Jar - Sylvia Plath ‡
The Central Park Five: A Chronicle of a City Wilding - Sarah Burns
The Devil at His Elbow: Alex Murdaugh and the Fall of a Southern Dynasty - Valerie Bauerlein
The House of My Mother: A Daughter's Quest for Freedom - Shari Franke
The Outsiders - S.E. Hinton * ‡
Wolly Olly Olly the Terrible Cow - Lindsey L. Brooks
Women Don't Owe You Pretty - Florence Given

★★★★☆ 

A Bear Called Paddington - Michael Bond
All the Light We Cannot See - Anthony Doerr ‡
Apples Never Fall - Liane Moriarty
Bind, Torture, Kill: The Inside Story of the Serial Killer Next Door - Roy Wenzl
Brave Enough - Cheryl Strayed
Cold Hearted (Villains, #8) - Serena Valentino
Drag Queen of Scots - Lawrence Chaney
Emotional Intelligence: Inclusion - Harvard Business Review
Evil Things (Villains, #7) - Serena Valentino
Falling Bodies (The Far Reaches, #3) - Rebecca Roanhorse
Glinda of Oz (Oz, #14) - L. Frank Baum
How Poetry Can Change Your Heart - Megan Falley & Andrea Gibson
How to Be More Paddington: A Book of Kindness - Michael Bond
How We Sleep at Night - Sara Cunningham
I Don't Need Therapy: and other lies I've told myself - Toni Lodge
I See You Seeing Me (I Should Be Smarter By Now, #4) - Issa Rae
Let's Call Her Barbie - Renée Rosen
Mother Knows Best (Villains, #5) - Serena Valentino
Oz, the Complete Collection, Volume 4 - L. Frank Baum
Oz, the Complete Collection, Volume 5 - L. Frank Baum
Parkland: A Birth of a Movement - Dave Cullen
Playing Well with Others (I Should Be Smarter By Now, #2) - Issa Rae
Rinkitink in Oz (Oz, #10) - L. Frank Baum
Rita Hayworth and Shawshank Redemption - Stephen King
The Big Cheese (The Food Group, #7) - Jory John & Pete Oswald
The Dogs of Venice - Steven Rowley
The Fall Risk - Abby Jimenez
The Geography of Creativity (I Should Be Smarter By Now, #3) - Issa Rae
The Lost Princess of Oz (Oz, #11) - L. Frank Baum 
The Magic of Oz, (Oz, #13) - L. Frank Baum
The Odd Sisters (Villains, #6) - Serena Valentino
The Perks of Being a Wallflower - Stephen Chbosky ‡
The Tin Woodman of Oz (Oz, #12) - L. Frank Baum
Where'd You Go, Bernadette - Maria Temple
The Wild Robot (The Wild Robot, #1) - Peter Brown
The Wild Robot Escapes (The Wild Robot, #2) - Peter Brown
The Wild Robot Protects (The Wild Robot, #3) - Peter Brown
Winnie the Pooh - A.A. Milne ‡

★★★☆☆ 

Abscond - Abraham Verghese
Behind the Door: The Dark Truths and Untold Stories of the Cecil Hotel - Amy Price
Death Row (Alibis Collection, #1) - Freida McFadden
Harry Potter: A Journey Through Care of Magical Creatures (Harry Potter: A Journey Through, #4) - Pottermore Publishing
Harry Potter: A Journey Through Charms and Defense Against the Dark Arts (Harry Potter: A Journey Through, #1) - Pottermore Publishing
Harry Potter: A Journey Through Divination and Astronomy (Harry Potter: A Journey Through, #3) - Pottermore Publishing
Harry Potter: A Journey Through Potions and Herbology (Harry Potter: A Journey Through, #2) - Pottermore Publishing
How to Be Loved Like Paddington - Michael Bond
I Almost Know What I'm Doing (I Should Be Smarter By Now, #6) - Issa Rae
Just Out of Jupiter's Reach (The Far Reaches, #5) - Nnedi Okorafor 
Mistress of All Evil (Villains, #4) - Serena Valentino
Oh. What. Fun. - Chandler Baker
Oklahoma City: What the Investigation Missed--and Why It Still Matters - Andrew Gumbel
The Art of Letting Go - Rain Naim
The Art of Strategic Procrastination (I Should Be Smarter By Now, #5) - Issa Rae
The Business of Being Me (I Should Be Smarter By Now, #1) - Issa Rae
The Last Father-Daughter Dance - Lisa Wingate
The Royal Book of Oz (Oz, #15) - Ruth Plumly Thompson
The Secret Garden - Frances Hodgson Burnett
The Sublet - Greer Hendricks
Void (The Far Reaches, #2) - Veronica Roth

★★☆☆☆

How It Unfolds (The Far Reaches, #1) - James S.A. Corey
The Great Eggscape! (The Food Group, #2.1) - Jory John & Pete Oswald
The Great Gatsby - F. Scott Fitzgerald ‡

★☆☆☆☆ 

Falling Down (The Boy in the Iron Box, #1) - Guillermo del Toro
Romeo and Juliet - William Shakespeare 
Slow Time Between Stars (The Far Reaches, #6) - John Scalzi 
The Long Game (The Far Reaches, #4) - Ann Leckie 


* Books that have been read 2 times
† Books that have been read 3 times
‡ Books that are Banned

2025 Reading Wrap Up

My 2025 Reading Wrap Up. This year I read 94 books and exceeded my goal of 85 books.

“The House of My Mother” by Shari Franke was the overall winner and the non-fiction winner with “Challenger: A True Story of Heroism and Disaster on the Edge of Space” by Adam Higginbotham coming in second. On the fiction side I had “Atmosphere” by Taylor Jenkins Reid as the winner with “All the Broken Places (The Boy in the Striped Pyjamas, #2)” by John Boyne coming in second.








2025 Books Read 

Non-Fiction - Memoirs:
How We Sleep at Night - Sara Cunningham
The House of My Mother: A Daughter's Quest for Freedom - Shari Franke

Non-Fiction - Audiobooks: 
Behind the Door: The Dark Truths and Untold Stories of the Cecil Hotel - Amy Price
Drag Queen of Scots - Lawrence Chaney
I Don't Need Therapy: and other lies I've told myself - Toni Lodge

Non-Fiction - Mental Health | Personal Growth:
And How Does That Make You Feel? - Joshua Fletcher
In Defense of Dabbling: The Brilliance of Being a Total Amateur - Karen Walrond
Radiant Rebellion: Reclaim Aging, Practice Joy, and Raise a Little Hell - Karen Walrond 
Women Don't Owe You Pretty - Florence Given

Non-Fiction - Leadership | Business:
Emotional Intelligence: Good Habits - Harvard Business Review
Emotional Intelligence: Inclusion - Harvard Business Review

Non-Fiction - History: 
Apollo 8: The Thrilling Story of the First Mission to the Moon - Jeffrey Kruger
Challenger: A True Story of Heroism and Disaster on the Edge of Space - Adam Higginbotham
The Astronaut Wives Club - Lily Koppel

Non-Fiction - True Crime: 
Bind, Torture, Kill: The Inside Story of the Serial Killer Next Door - Roy Wenzl
Oklahoma City: What the Investigation Missed--and Why It Still Matters - Andrew Gumbel
Parkland: A Birth of a Movement - Dave Cullen
The Central Park Five: A Chronicle of a City Wilding - Sarah Burns
The Devil at His Elbow: Alex Murdaugh and the Fall of a Southern Dynasty - Valerie Bauerlein

Non-Fiction: 
Brave Enough - Cheryl Strayed
Harry Styles is Life - Kathleen Perricone
Lady Gaga is Life - Kathleen Perricone 
Rihanna is Life - Kathleen Perricone
The Beauty of Different: Observations of a Confident Misfit - Karen Walrond 

Fiction: 
All the Light We Cannot See - Anthony Doerr ‡
Apples Never Fall - Liane Moriarty
Atmosphere - Taylor Reid Jenkins
Harriet Tubman: Live in Concert - Bob the Drag Queen
Let's Call Her Barbie - Renée Rosen
Malibu Rising - Taylor Jenkins Reid
Room - Emma Donoghue
Summer Sisters - Judy Blume 
Where'd You Go, Bernadette - Maria Temple

Fiction - Audiobooks:
Rita Hayworth and Shawshank Redemption - Stephen King

Fiction - Classics:
Romeo and Juliet - William Shakespeare 
The Bell Jar - Sylvia Plath ‡
The Great Gatsby - F. Scott Fitzgerald ‡
The Outsiders - S.E. Hinton * ‡
The Perks of Being a Wallflower - Stephen Chbosky ‡
The Secret Garden - Frances Hodgson Burnett

Fiction - Series: 
Somewhere Beyond the Sea (Cerulean Chronicles, #2) - T.J. Klune
A Map of Days (Miss Peregrine's Peculiar Children, #4) - Ransom Riggs
Rinkitink in Oz (Oz, #10) - L. Frank Baum
The Lost Princess of Oz (Oz, #11) - L. Frank Baum 
The Tin Woodman of Oz (Oz, #12) - L. Frank Baum
The Magic of Oz, (Oz, #13) - L. Frank Baum
Glinda of Oz (Oz, #14) - L. Frank Baum
The Royal Book of Oz (Oz, #15) - Ruth Plumly Thompson
Oz, the Complete Collection, Volume 4 - L. Frank Baum
Oz, the Complete Collection, Volume 5 - L. Frank Baum
All the Broken Places (The Boy in the Striped Pajamas, #2) - John Boyne
Sunrise on the Reaping (The Hunger Games, #0.5) - Suzanne Collins
Mistress of All Evil (Villains, #4) - Serena Valentino
Mother Knows Best (Villains, #5) - Serena Valentino
The Odd Sisters (Villains, #6) - Serena Valentino
Evil Things (Villains, #7) - Serena Valentino
Cold Hearted (Villains, #8) - Serena Valentino
The Wild Robot (The Wild Robot, #1) - Peter Brown
The Wild Robot Escapes (The Wild Robot, #2) - Peter Brown
The Wild Robot Protects (The Wild Robot, #3) - Peter Brown

Poetry: 
How Poetry Can Change Your Heart - Megan Falley & Andrea Gibson
Poems & Prayers - Matthew McConaughey

Short Stories - Fiction:
Abscond - Abraham Verghese
Oh. What. Fun. - Chandler Baker
The Dogs of Venice - Steven Rowley
The Last Father-Daughter Dance - Lisa Wingate
The Fall Risk - Abby Jimenez
The Sublet - Greer Hendricks

Short Stories - Fiction - Series: 
Death Row (Alibis Collection, #1) - Freida McFadden
How It Unfolds (The Far Reaches, #1) - James S.A. Corey
Void (The Far Reaches, #2) - Veronica Roth
Falling Bodies (The Far Reaches, #3) - Rebecca Roanhorse
The Long Game (The Far Reaches, #4) - Ann Leckie 
Just Out of Jupiter's Reach (The Far Reaches, #5) - Nnedi Okorafor 
Slow Time Between Stars (The Far Reaches, #6) - John Scalzi 
Harry Potter: A Journey Through Charms and Defense Against the Dark Arts (Harry Potter: A Journey Through, #1) - Pottermore Publishing
Harry Potter: A Journey Through Potions and Herbology (Harry Potter: A Journey Through, #2) - Pottermore Publishing
Harry Potter: A Journey Through Divination and Astronomy (Harry Potter: A Journey Through, #3) - Pottermore Publishing
Harry Potter: A Journey Through Care of Magical Creatures (Harry Potter: A Journey Through, #4) - Pottermore Publishing
Falling Down (The Boy in the Iron Box, #1) - Guillermo del Toro

Short Stories - Non Fiction:
The Art of Letting Go - Rain Naim
The Business of Being Me (I Should Be Smarter By Now, #1) - Issa Rae
Playing Well with Others (I Should Be Smarter By Now, #2) - Issa Rae
The Geography of Creativity (I Should Be Smarter By Now, #3) - Issa Rae
I See You Seeing Me (I Should Be Smarter By Now, #4) - Issa Rae
The Art of Strategic Procrastination (I Should Be Smarter By Now, #5) - Issa Rae
I Almost Know What I'm Doing (I Should Be Smarter By Now, #6) - Issa Rae

Children's Books:
A Bear Called Paddington - Michael Bond
How to Be Loved Like Paddington - Michael Bond
How to Be More Paddington: A Book of Kindness - Michael Bond
The Big Cheese (The Food Group, #7) - Jory John & Pete Oswald
The Great Eggscape! (The Food Group, #2.1) - Jory John & Pete Oswald
Winnie the Pooh - A.A. Milne ‡
Wolly Olly Olly the Terrible Cow - Lindsey L. Brooks



* Books that have been read 2 times
† Books that have been read 3 times
‡ Books that are Banned

Sunday, December 14, 2025

Goodreads Review - "Challenger: A True Story of Heroism & Disaster on the Edge of Space"

Challenger: A True Story of Heroism and Disaster on the Edge of SpaceChallenger: A True Story of Heroism and Disaster on the Edge of Space by Adam Higginbotham
My rating: 5 of 5 stars

The history behind NASA and space exploration is one of my favorite subjects to read about or watch a documentary of. I’ve seen the “Challenger: The Final Flight” documentary on Netflix at least four times. This book was released after that documentary and includes most of the info from it; however, it also provides even more details. Adam Higginbotham has delivered us with an extensively researched and well written story of what really happened.

This disaster should have never happened. It wasn’t an accident and I refuse to ever call it that. This was prideful negligence on the part of NASA leaders who strong-armed others to agree with them to continue the launch despite the recommendations not to. You would think that NASA would have learned their lesson after the Apollo 1 fatal fire. They didn’t. They allowed their hubris to take front and center stage.

We owe a lot to Al McDonald and his bravery for standing up & speaking the truth at the Rogers Commission of what really happened the night before in a meeting between NASA and Thiokol. It’s even more disturbing that NASA officials didn’t inform the astronauts of the risk of launching that morning. General Donald Kutyna said to Larry Mallory during the hearings, “Larry, if this were an airplane, an airliner, and I just had a two-hour argument with Boeing on whether the wing was going to fall off or not, I think I would tell the pilot.”

Dr. Judy Resnik’s last words were hauntingly beautiful. Before she entered the front cabin, she looked at Christa McAuliffe and said, “The next time I see you, we’ll be in space.”

The last part of President Reagan’s address to the nation (which includes a couple lines from the poem “High Flight”): “The crew of the space shuttle Challenger honored us by the manner in which they lived their lives. We will never forget them, nor the last time we saw them, this morning, as they prepared for their journey and waved goodbye and slipped the surly bonds of earth to touch the face of God.”

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Goodreads Review - "Poems & Prayers"

Poems & PrayersPoems & Prayers by Matthew McConaughey
My rating: 5 of 5 stars

I really enjoyed reading this book of poems & prayers and I highly recommend it to anyone who loves poetry. I saved a few poems and quotes and this one was my favorite:

"The American dream is a promise for the opportunity to at least fail, and possibly succeed. Seems like the path to this dream is more undefined now than it's ever been. To those among us who don't believe in it and say, "It's not real," I say to you: "At least America's still trying." That's simply not true in so many other countries. So, whether you think it's a dream or an illusion, if nothing else, it's the best nightmare available.

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Saturday, November 15, 2025

Goodreads Review - "In Defense of Dabbling"

In Defense of Dabbling: The Brilliance of Being a Total AmateurIn Defense of Dabbling: The Brilliance of Being a Total Amateur by Karen Walrond
My rating: 5 of 5 stars

I’ve said it before and I say it again, there are less than 5 authors that I will preorder a book from and Karen is one of them. I haven’t been dissappointed yet. This book was the one that I was most excited for because in the last couple of years, I’ve been pretty bored and wanting to try new hobbies. I love how she writes her books which includes not just her talking about her experience or knowledge on any subject matter, she includes conversations she has with other people on the same subject. She talks about the 7 attributes of intentional amateurism and dives even further with each one: curiosity, mindfulness, self-compassion, play, stretch zone, connection, and wonder & awe. I love that she talks about dabbling in past hobbies as well as discovering new ones. I’ve been cross stitching for almost 3 decades now and I don’t plan to stop but I’m eager to branch out into other crafts involving needle & thread.

“Given that leisure is our birthright and that the practice of leisure activities in a ritualistic way can be a spiritual practice, intentional amateurism has the potential to be a powerful form of self-care.  And the beauty of this is that any activity we choose as a potential avocation—whether it involves returning to a past passion or dabbling in something new—could be a perfect candidate for this restful, restorative practice. Dusting off those roller skates, or grabbing the violin from the attic, or reaching for those oil paints after a long hiatus, especially when your moves don’t come as easily as they used to: These things are hard.”

I used a lot of sticky tabs for this book but here’s a couple of quotes from the book I loved:

“As for me, I’ll never have the virtuosity of say, Billy Joel.  But I’ve learned that it takes grit to return to something I used to do well.  It requires showing myself compassion by releasing the idea of perfection I’d held in my youth and embracing the evolution of my current capabilities.”

“When we talk about ‘perfectionism’ or constantly attempting to be right, we’re concerned about what other people think of our performance….. Your goal isn’t about the end result so much as it is an inquiry into your activity and your reaction to it.  It’s about disconnecting yourself from the quality of your results as defined by other people.  And to an extent, it’s also about disconnecting yourself from your own expectations of yourself.” – Jeff Harry

I’ve decided to compile a list of new, current, and old hobbies that I want to dabble in a little more.

New Hobbies: Book Binding | Thread Painting | Macre-Weaving (Macrame Weaving) | Diorama/Book Nook building | Ukulele | Kalimba | Oboe | Mandala Rock Paintings | Gypsum Art
Current Hobbies: Cross stitching | Reading | Embroidery | LEGO | Macrame | Running/Walking | Music | Diamond Painting | Epoxy/Resin Art | Beading | Candle Making
Old Hobbies: Bowling | Archery | Flute | Piccolo | Alto Saxophone | Yoga | Tennis | Pickleball | Roller Skating | Kite Flying | Poetry/Writing | Sewing | Traveling | Baking

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Wednesday, October 22, 2025

Goodreads Review - "The Dogs of Venice"

The Dogs of VeniceThe Dogs of Venice by Steven Rowley
My rating: 4 of 5 stars

When I marked this book as finished, I noticed my “Read” Goodreads bookshelf now said 555. That’s how many books I’ve read in my life. I looked up the meaning behind 555 and it symbolizes major life changes, transformation, and personal growth which is very fitting for this book.

Here’s my favorite quote from the book:
“Perhaps how to be alone wasn’t even the lesson Paul was seeking; how to be present was. There was music and wonder in life to be had, and yes, sometimes it was nice to experience it with another, but it didn’t come from being with someone else. The world could be appreciated alone, even when it felt scary.”

The reference to Diane Keaton made me a little sad.

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Tuesday, September 30, 2025

Goodreads Review - "Oz, the Complete Collection, Volume 4"

Oz, The Complete Collection, Volume 4: Rinkitink in Oz / The Lost Princess of Oz / The Tin Woodman of Oz (Oz, #10-12)Oz, The Complete Collection, Volume 4: Rinkitink in Oz / The Lost Princess of Oz / The Tin Woodman of Oz by L. Frank Baum
My rating: 4 of 5 stars

This volume was one of my favorites so far.

Rinkitink in Oz (4 stars)

I really liked this book in the series after that last few that I have read that I rated 3 stars. There's always an adventure and something to overcome. I'm a bit confused at why the title was about Rinkitink when he wasn't even the main character but the story was still good. The ending for King Gos and Queen Cor was not something I expected. And last, the story line for Bilbil, the goat, was a great twist at the end.

I really did love this quote about Zella who is Nikobob's daughter: "She was a brave little girl and poor people are often obliged to take chances that rich ones are spared."

Side note: It's extremely important to remember that this book was published in 1916 which means that some words are used in a different context like the word 'molest' which was used quite few times in the book. The older definition and the use for the word was: "to bother, interfere with, or annoy." It has since been updated in the dictionary to reflect the current definition.

The Lost Princess of Oz (4 stars)

This story was actually really good. There's always an adventure and something to overcome. Princess Ozma goes missing (along with other magical items) and the characters have to go on a journey to rescue her. I love that a lot of the main characters from the beginning were more present in this story. The Mysterious City was one of my favorites and how they (well it was Scraps) figured out how to get in was quite fun to read.

There was a section in the book where they were comparing beauty and who was the most beautiful and the Lion responded with the following and I loved this: "Were we all like the Sawhorse, we would all be Sawhorses, which would be too many of the kind; were we all like Hank, we would be a herd of mules; if like Toto, we would be a pack of dogs; should we all become the shape of the Woozy, he would no longer be remarkable for his unusual appearance. Finally, were you all like me, I would consider you so common that I would not care to associate with you. To be individual, my friends, to be different from others, is the only way to become distinguished from the common herd. Let us be glad, therefore, that we differ from one another in form and in disposition. Variety is the spice of life and we are various enough to enjoy one another's society; so let us be content."

Another favorite part was when Toto lost his growl and said "But how about my lost growl?" and the Lion responded with, "The growl is of importance only to you. So it is your business to worry over the loss, not ours. If you love us, do not afflict your burdens on us; be unhappy all by yourself."

And lastly this quote from Ugu the Shoemaker said: "For many days of quiet thought have shown me that only those things one acquires honestly are able to render one content."


The Tin Woodman of Oz (4 stars)
This one was another favorite in this series. You would think that as many books as there are in this series, the creativity would run dry but it hasn't yet. This story follows the Tin Woodman's story about a munchkin he was suppose to marry before he got stuck in the woods until Dorothy came to his rescue in the first book. After encouragement from Woot the Wanderer, they go on a journey to find his first love and marry her.

I was not expecting how much would happen and how they linked a lot of it to the books before like the nine tiny piglets and where they came from originally before they now live with the Wizard of Oz. We get to find out what became of his body parts after the Wicked Witch had cursed his axe. And last, the ending to the story was not predictable as I thought it would be and I loved it. I won't say anymore because I don't want to spoil anything.

There were a few quotes that I loved in the book so I'll share them here: "When one travels, it is foolish to miss any interesting sight." - the Scarecrow

"I'm glad they didn't invite us in. I hope I'm not too particular about my associates, but I draw the line at pigs." - Captain Fyter

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Thursday, September 11, 2025

A Note on Empathy by Jeff Guenther, LPC

It makes sense if you don't feel a deep well of empathy for someone who made a career out of refusing to show it for others. 

I want to normalize that because sometimes when a public figure dies especially in a tragic way, people rush to say, you have to be compassionate right now. Don't speak ill of the dead but if that person spent their life dismissing other people's pain, mocking it, minimizing it, even actively contributing to it, it makes sense that your empathy tank might run dry. 

That doesn't mean you're celebrating. It doesn't mean you're cold hearted. It just means your compassion has limits and those limits are often shaped by how much compassion someone showed in their lifetime. 
There’s actually something psychologically healthy about noticing that boundary. You're not obligated to manufacture sorrow for someone who never extended any to you, your community, or people you care about. 

You can hold both I don't wish this on anyone and I don't feel sad about it either. That's not cruelty. That's honesty and it feels really weird and uncomfortable to hold both of those in your body at the same time. 

This isn't about telling you not to be compassionate. It's about giving you permission to notice whatever you honestly feel or don't feel and trust that it's valid. 

- Jeff Guenther, LPC

Monday, July 28, 2025

Goodreads Review - "The Devil at His Elbow"

The Devil at His Elbow: Alex Murdaugh and the Fall of a Southern DynastyThe Devil at His Elbow: Alex Murdaugh and the Fall of a Southern Dynasty by Valerie Bauerlein
My rating: 5 of 5 stars

I highly recommend this book even if you've already seen documentaries about the Murdaugh family. This is the best book out there on this story. There's so much information on this family and the tragedies surrounding them. The writing was so good and it flowed very well.


There were a few quotes that stuck out to me:

"Alex had his secrets.  So did his forefathers.  Alex’s father, grandfather, and great-grandfather could make secrets disappear, and they had taught Alex to embrace the family ethos: To live above the law, you must become the law."

"For more than a century, the Murdaughs had practiced the art of putting a polished sheen over the mess of reality.

"Waters pressed Alex on the magnitude of his success and influence. There was an absurdity to Alex's disputing something so plainly true, as if he were so accustomed to swimming in the water of privilege, he forgot it was water at all."

"A dominant impression, shared by many, was that Moselle felt like a place where the barrier between the living and the dead was very thin."

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Tuesday, December 31, 2024

2024 Reading Wrap Up - Ratings

                            






★★★★★

A Nearly Normal Family - M.T. Edvardsson
Ain't Burned All the Bright - Jason Reynolds
Aristotle & Dante Discover the Secrets of the Universe (Aristotle & Dante, #1) - Benjamin Alire Saenz
Barbie: The Screenplay - Greta Gerwig
Behind the Seams: My Life in Rhinestones - Dolly Parton
Beyond the Gender Binary - Alok Vaid-Menon
Concrete Rose (The Hate U Give, #0) - Angie Thomas
Elizabeth & Margaret: The Intimate World of the Windsor Sisters - Andrew Morton
Emotional Intelligence: Managing Your Anxiety - Harvard Business Review
Fantastic Beasts and Where to find Them (Fantastic Beasts, #1) - J.K. Rowling
Fantastic Beasts The Crimes of Grindelwald (Fantastic Beasts, #2) - J.K. Rowling
Fantastic Beasts The Secrets of Dumbledore (Fantastic Beasts, #3) - J.K. Rowling
From Here to the Great Unknown - Lisa Marie Presley & Riley Keough
Greenlights - Matthew McConaughey
How Ya'll Doing?: Misadventures and Mischief from a Life Well Lived - Leslie Jordan * 
It Ends with Us (It Ends With Us, #1) - Colleen Hoover
Karma - Boy George
Library of Souls (Miss Peregrine's Peculiar Children, #3) - Ransom Riggs
Lily and the Octopus - Steven Rowley
Lucille Bell Treasures - Cindy De La Hoz
Microjoys: Finding Hope (Especially) When Life Is Not Okay - Cyndie Spiegel
Mindhunter: Inside the FBI's Elite Serial Crime Unit - John E. Douglas & Mark Olshaker
Newtown: An American Tragedy- Matthew Lysiak
Pretty Girls - Karin Slaughter
Sociopath - Patric Gagne
Taylor Swift is Life - Kathleen Perricone
The Blood of Emmett Till - Timothy B. Tyson
The Boy in the Striped Pajamas (The Boy in the Striped Pajamas, #1) - John Boyne *
The House of Hidden Meanings - RuPaul
The Housemaid (The Housemaid, #1) - Freida McFadden
The Forgotten Chapter (Blaze Collection, #3) - Pam Jenoff
The Guncle Abroad (The Guncle, #2) - Steven Rowley
The Official Taylor Swift | The Eras Tour Book - Taylor Swift
The Queens' English: The LGBTQIA+ Dictionary - Chloe O. Davis
The Queens' English: The Young Readers' LGBTQIA+ Dictionary - Chloe O. Davis
The Woman In Me - Britney Spears
The Woman in the Window - A.J. Finn
The World Needs Who You Were Made to Be - Joanna Gaines *
Where Was God? - Jennifer Dawn Turpin
We Should All Be Feminists - Chimamanda Ngoni Adichie


★★★★☆ 

A Brilliant Life: My Mother's Inspiring True Story of Surviving the Holocaust - Rachelle Unreich
All the Missing Girls - Megan Miranda
Amelia's Shadow (Blaze Collection, #1) - Marie Benedict
Animal Farm - George Orwell
Are You There God? It's Me, Margaret - Judy Blume
August: Osage County - Tracy Letts
Barriers to Entry (Blaze Collection, #7) - Ariel Lawhon 
Candace (The Fairer Sex Collection, #1) - Michelle Miller
Disney: Winnie the Pooh (Tiny Book) - Brooke Vitale
Eat Drink Nap: Bringing the House Home - Soho House
Fallen Grace (Blaze Collection, #6) - Sadeqa Johnson
for colored girls who have considered suicide - Ntozake Shange
Gray Malin: Coastal - Gray Malin
Great LGBTQ+ Speeches - Tea Uglow
GuRu - RuPaul *
If I Did It: Confessions of the Killer - O.J. Simpson
In the Lives of Puppets - TJ Kline
It Starts with Us (It Ends with Us, #2) - Colleen Hoover
Kill Joy (A Good Girl's Guide to Murder, #0.5) - Holly Jackson
Me Talk Pretty One Day - David Sedaris
Name Drop - Ross Mathews
Tangled Vines: Power, Privilege, and the Murdaugh Family Murders - John Glatt
The Alchemist - Paulo Coelho
The Answer is No - Fredrik Backman
The Art of Drag - Jake Hall
The Beast Within (Villains, #2) - Serena Valentino
The Best Girls (Disorder Collection, #1) - Min Jin Lee
The June Paintings (Blaze Collection, #2) - Maggie Shipstead
The Last Mrs. Parrish (Mrs. Parrish, #1) - Liv Constantine
The One and Only Family (The One and Only Ivan, #4) - Katherine Applegate
the princess saves herself in this one - Amanda Lovelace
The Red Bandanna: A Life. A Choice. A Legacy. - Tom Rinaldi
Two Women Walk Into a Bar - Cheryl Strayed

★★★☆☆ 

Alice's Adventures in Wonderland - Lewis Carroll
Alicia (The Fairer Sex Collection, #3) - Michelle Miller
All in Good Taste - Kate Spade
Charlie and the Chocolate Factory (Charlie Bucket, #1) - Roald Dahl
Clara (The Fairer Sex Collection, #5) - Michelle Miller
Eleanor (The Fairer Sex Collection, #7) - Michelle Miller
Enemy of the People: The Untold Story of the Journalists Who Opposed Hitler - Terrence Petty
Fires to Come (Blaze Collection, #4) - Asha Lemmie
Fairest of All (Villains, #1) - Serena Valentino
Heartstopper: Volume 5 - Alice Oseman
Natural Selection - Elon Hilderbrand
Oz, the Complete Collection, Volume 3 - L. Frank Baum
Poor Unfortunate Soul (Villains, #3) - Serena Valentino
The Deal of a Lifetime - Fredrik Backman
The Life of Christine Jorgensen - Jennifer Hopkins
The Patchwork Girl of Oz (Oz, #7) - L. Frank Baum
The Raven - Edgar Allen Poe
The Rise and Fall of Adolf Hitler - William L. Shirer
The Scarecrow of Oz (Oz, #9) - L. Frank Baum
The Summer We Believed (Denim Days, #1) - Shel Delisle
The Texas Tower Sniper: The Terrifying True Story of Charles Whitman - Ryan Green
The World According to Mister Rogers - Fred Rogers
Tik-Tok of Oz (Oz, #8) - L. Frank Baum
Tune in Tomorrow (Blaze Collection, #5) - Melanie Benjamin
When We Were Friends - Jane Green

★★☆☆☆

Breakfast at Tiffany's - Truman Capote
Heidi (The Fairer Sex Collection, #4) - Michelle Miller
Loam (Disorder Collection, #2) - Scott Heim
Lovers at the Museum - Isabel Allende
Meredith (The Fairer Sex Collection, #2) - Michelle Miller
On Enemy Ground (The Spy Who Vanished, #2) - Alma Katsu
Shaken, Not Stirred (The Spy Who Vanished, #3) - Alma Katsu
The Vanishing Man (The Spy Who Vanished, #1) - Alma Katsu

★☆☆☆☆ 

Anonymous (Disorder Collection, #4) - Uzodinma Iweala 
Cut & Thirst - Margaret Atwood
Hamlet - William Shakespeare
Harry Potter Spells - Prince Vincent
Keridee (The Fairer Sex Collection, #8) - Michelle Miller
Lauren (The Fairer Sex Collection, #6) - Michelle Miller
Mermaid - Jodi Picoult
The Absent-Minded Gentleman - Frank Heller
The Beckoning Fair One (Disorder Collection, #5) - Dan Chaon
Ungirls (Disorder Collection, #3) - Lauren Beaks
Will Williams (Disorder Collection, #6) - Namwali Serpell


* Books that have been read 2 times
† Books that have been read 3 times

2024 Reading Wrap Up

Here’s my 2024 Reading Wrap Up. This year I managed to read 117 books and exceeded my goal of 60 books. This is my first year to ever read over a hundred books. 

The House of Hidden Meanings” by RuPaul was the overall winner and the non-fiction winner with “Greenlights” by Matthew McConaughey coming in second. On the fiction side I had “The Guncle Abroad” by Steven Rowley as the winner with “A Nearly Normal Family” by M.T. Edvardsson coming in second.





2024 Books Read:

Non-Fiction - Memoirs:
Greenlights - Matthew McConaughey
How Ya'll Doing?: Misadventures and Mischief from a Life Well Lived - Leslie Jordan * 
From Here to the Great Unknown - Lisa Marie Presley & Riley Keough
Karma - Boy George
Sociopath - Patric Gagne
The House of Hidden Meanings - RuPaul
The Woman In Me - Britney Spears
Where Was God? - Jennifer Dawn Turpin

Non-Fiction - Audiobooks: 
GuRu - RuPaul *

Non-Fiction - Personal Growth:
Emotional Intelligence: Managing Your Anxiety - Harvard Business Review
Microjoys: Finding Hope (Especially) When Life Is Not Okay - Cyndie Spiegel

Non-Fiction - True Crime: 
If I Did It: Confessions of the Killer - O.J. Simpson
Mindhunter: Inside the FBI's Elite Serial Crime Unit - John E. Douglas & Mark Olshaker
Newtown: An American Tragedy- Matthew Lysiak
Tangled Vines: Power, Privilege, and the Murdaugh Family Murders - John Glatt

Non-Fiction - History: 
A Brilliant Life: My Mother's Inspiring True Story of Surviving the Holocaust - Rachelle Unreich
Elizabeth & Margaret: The Intimate World of the Windsor Sisters - Andrew Morton
Great LGBTQ+ Speeches - Tea Uglow
The Art of Drag - Jake Hall
The Blood of Emmett Till - Timothy B. Tyson
The Red Bandanna: A Life. A Choice. A Legacy. - Tom Rinaldi
The Rise and Fall of Adolf Hitler - William L. Shirer

Non-Fiction: 
Ain't Burned All the Bright - Jason Reynolds
All in Good Taste - Kate Spade
Behind the Seams: My Life in Rhinestones - Dolly Parton
Beyond the Gender Binary - Alok Vaid-Menon
Eat Drink Nap: Bringing the House Home - Soho House
Gray Malin: Coastal - Gray Malin
Lucille Bell Treasures - Cindy De La Hoz
Me Talk Pretty One Day - David Sedaris
Name Drop - Ross Mathews
Taylor Swift is Life - Kathleen Perricone
The Life of Christine Jorgensen - Jennifer Hopkins
The Official Taylor Swift | The Eras Tour Book - Taylor Swift
The Queens' English: The LGBTQIA+ Dictionary - Chloe O. Davis
The Queens' English: The Young Readers' LGBTQIA+ Dictionary - Chloe O. Davis
The World According to Mister Rogers - Fred Rogers

Fiction: 
A Nearly Normal Family - M.T. Edvardsson
Alice's Adventures in Wonderland - Lewis Carroll
All the Missing Girls - Megan Miranda
Animal Farm - George Orwell
Are You There God? It's Me, Margaret - Judy Blume
August: Osage County - Tracy Letts
Barbie: The Screenplay - Greta Gerwig
Breakfast at Tiffany's - Truman Capote
for colored girls who have considered suicide - Ntozake Shange
Hamlet - William Shakespeare
In the Lives of Puppets - TJ Kline
Lily and the Octopus - Steven Rowley
Pretty Girls - Karin Slaughter
The Alchemist - Paulo Coelho
The Woman in the Window - A.J. Finn

Fiction - Series: 
Kill Joy (A Good Girl's Guide to Murder, #0.5) - Holly Jackson
Aristotle & Dante Discover the Secrets of the Universe (Aristotle & Dante, #1) - Benjamin Alire Saenz
The Boy in the Striped Pajamas (The Boy in the Striped Pajamas, #1) - John Boyne *
Charlie and the Chocolate Factory (Charlie Bucket, #1) - Roald Dahl
Fantastic Beasts and Where to find Them (Fantastic Beasts, #1) - J.K. Rowling
Fantastic Beasts The Crimes of Grindelwald (Fantastic Beasts, #2) - J.K. Rowling
Fantastic Beasts The Secrets of Dumbledore (Fantastic Beasts, #3) - J.K. Rowling
The Guncle Abroad (The Guncle, #2) - Steven Rowley
Heartstopper: Volume 5 - Alice Oseman
The Housemaid (The Housemaid, #1) - Freida McFadden
It Ends with Us (It Ends with Us, #1) - Colleen Hoover
It Starts with Us (It Ends with Us, #2) - Colleen Hoover
Library of Souls (Miss Peregrine's Peculiar Children, #3) - Ransom Riggs
The Last Mrs. Parrish (Mrs. Parrish, #1) - Liv Constantine
Oz, the Complete Collection, Volume 3 - L. Frank Baum
The Patchwork Girl of Oz (Oz, #7) - L. Frank Baum
Tik-Tok of Oz (Oz, #8) - L. Frank Baum
The Scarecrow of Oz (Oz, #9) - L. Frank Baum
Concrete Rose (The Hate U Give, #0) - Angie Thomas
The One and Only Family (The One and Only Ivan, #4) - Katherine Applegate
Fairest of All (Villains, #1) - Serena Valentino
The Beast Within (Villains, #2) - Serena Valentino
Poor Unfortunate Soul (Villains, #3) - Serena Valentino

Poetry: 
the princess saves herself in this one - Amanda Lovelace

Short Stories - Fiction:
Cut & Thirst - Margaret Atwood
Harry Potter Spells - Prince Vincent
Lovers at the Museum - Isabel Allende
Mermaid - Jodi Picoult
Natural Selection - Elon Hilderbrand
The Absent-Minded Gentleman - Frank Heller
The Answer is No - Fredrik Backman
The Deal of a Lifetime - Fredrik Backman
The Raven - Edgar Allen Poe
When We Were Friends - Jane Green

Short Stories - Non Fiction:
Enemy of the People: The Untold Story of the Journalists Who Opposed Hitler - Terrence Petty
The Texas Tower Sniper: The Terrifying True Story of Charles Whitman - Ryan Green
Two Women Walk Into a Bar - Cheryl Strayed
We Should All Be Feminists - Chimamanda Ngoni Adichie

Short Stories - Series: 
Amelia's Shadow (Blaze Collection, #1) - Marie Benedict
The June Paintings (Blaze Collection, #2) - Maggie Shipstead
The Forgotten Chapter (Blaze Collection, #3) - Pam Jenoff
Fires to Come (Blaze Collection, #4) - Asha Lemmie
Tune in Tomorrow (Blaze Collection, #5) - Melanie Benjamin
Fallen Grace (Blaze Collection, #6) - Sadeqa Johnson
Barriers to Entry (Blaze Collection, #7) - Ariel Lawhon 
The Summer We Believed (Denim Days, #1) - Shel Delisle
The Best Girls (Disorder Collection, #1) - Min Jin Lee
Loam (Disorder Collection, #2) - Scott Heim
Ungirls (Disorder Collection, #3) - Lauren Beaks
Anonymous (Disorder Collection, #4) - Uzodinma Iweala 
The Beckoning Fair One (Disorder Collection, #5) - Dan Chaon
Will Williams (Disorder Collection, #6) - Namwali Serpell
Candace (The Fairer Sex Collection, #1) - Michelle Miller
Meredith (The Fairer Sex Collection, #2) - Michelle Miller
Alicia (The Fairer Sex Collection, #3) - Michelle Miller
Heidi (The Fairer Sex Collection, #4) - Michelle Miller
Clara (The Fairer Sex Collection, #5) - Michelle Miller
Lauren (The Fairer Sex Collection, #6) - Michelle Miller
Eleanor (The Fairer Sex Collection, #7) - Michelle Miller
Keridee (The Fairer Sex Collection, #8) - Michelle Miller
The Vanishing Man (The Spy Who Vanished, #1) - Alma Katsu
On Enemy Ground (The Spy Who Vanished, #2) - Alma Katsu
Shaken, Not Stirred (The Spy Who Vanished, #3) - Alma Katsu

Children's Books:
Disney: Winnie the Pooh (Tiny Book) - Brooke Vitale
The World Needs Who You Were Made to Be - Joanna Gaines *

* Books that have been read 2 times
† Books that have been read 3 times

Goodreads Review - "From Here to the Great Unknown"

From Here to the Great UnknownFrom Here to the Great Unknown by Lisa Marie Presley
My rating: 5 of 5 stars

This book was so good and beautifully written. This was definitely a 5-star read for me. I’ve included my three favorite parts of the book. The first two are Lisa-Marie’s words and the last is Riley’s from a letter to her mom that was read at her funeral.

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AT SOME POINT I HAD A BRIGHT IDEA. THE FANS OUTSIDE ALWAYS WANTED ME TO TAKE THEIR CAMERA AND TAKE A PICTURE OF MY DAD. "GIVE ME TWENTY BUCKS, AND I'LL TAKE A PICTURE OF HIM," I'D SAY TO THE UBER FANS BY THE FENCE.
SURE ENOUGH, THEY WOULD GIVE ME TWENTY DOLLARS, THEN I WOULD GO INTO THE HOUSE AND TAKE A PICTURE OF THE FLOOR. I'D GIVE THE CAMERA BACK AND SAY, "HERE'S A PICTURE OF THE DOOR AND THE FLOOR." I STARTED DOING THAT REGULARLY.

- Lisa-Marie Presley

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I DON'T THINK MY SPARK WILL EVER COME BACK, TO BE PERFECTLY HONEST.
GRIEF SETTLES. IT'S NOT SOMETHING YOU OVERCOME. IT'S SOMETHING THAT YOU LIVE WITH. YOU ADAPT TO IT. NOTHING ABOUT YOU IS WHO YOU WERE. NOTHING ABOUT HOW OR WHAT I USED TO THINK IS IMPORTANT. THE TRUTH IS THAT I DON'T REMEMBER WHO I WAS.

- Lisa-Marie Presley
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THANK YOU FOR GIVING ME STRENGTH, MY HEART, MY EMPATHY, MY COURAGE, MY SENSE OF HUMOR, MY MANNERS, MY TEMPER, MY WILDNESS, MY TENACITY. I AM A PRODUCT OF YOUR HEART. MY SISTERS ARE A PRODUCT OF YOUR HEART. MY BROTHER IS A PRODUCT OF YOUR HEART. WE ARE YOU, YOU ARE US, MY ETERNAL LOVE. I HOPE YOU FINALLY KNOW HOW LOVED YOU WERE HERE. THANK YOU FOR TRYING SO HARD FOR US. IF I DIDN'T TELL YOU EVERY DAY, THANK YOU.

- Riley Keough (from a letter to her mom that was read at her funeral)

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Date Read: 26 Oct - 5 Nov 2024

Sunday, December 15, 2024

Goodreads Review - "Oz, Complete Collection, Volume 3"

Oz, the Complete Collection, Volume 3: The Patchwork Girl of Oz / Tik-Tok of Oz / The Scarecrow of Oz (Oz, #7-9)Oz, the Complete Collection, Volume 3: The Patchwork Girl of Oz / Tik-Tok of Oz / The Scarecrow of Oz by L. Frank Baum
My rating: 3 of 5 stars

The Patchwork Girl of Oz (3 stars)
Another new adventure in the land of Oz. It was good but not too exciting. More characters were introduced. How the patchwork girl was created was very creative. On to the next adventure.

Tik-Tok of Oz (3 stars)
Each adventure is exciting to read with new and creative characters and places in the Land of Oz but this one was a bit boring for me. I'm still not sure why this was labeled after "Tik-Tok" because we barely got to see Tik-Tok and when we did, he didn't really do much but that's just my opinion. This review won't stop me from finishing the series because there are a lot of creative stories, characters, and places that I'm excited to see more of.


The Scarecrow of Oz (3 stars)
I love the fact that two new characters appeared from another one of L. Frank Baum's book outside of the Oz collection. The book is titled after the Scarecrow but he doesn't appear until the last half of the book. This books was okay but not one of my favorites. It's important to note that one of the chapter's title has the "m" word when referring to little people so it may be triggering for some.

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Date Read: 19 Apr - 15 Dec 2024

Wednesday, September 25, 2024